The gospel, according to
Saint Petersoft:
NARRATED AND
EMBELLISHED: The Reverend Deal Anal Petersore.
Brethern,
follow me, 
and I shalt lead thee to truth! 
The TRUTH-
That is why I am really
strict with my meds now. I am trying to be patient with him, but he has been
getting really obnoxious and argumentative when he starts catching a buzz.
Do you have
any advice for me? I know I am not perfect and
I am really sticking to my prescriptions as I am supposed to, and do
not get fucked up. I wouldn't do that around his kids,
as a guest here,
but I don't know how to handle it. 
The only thing I can think of is to just shut
up, and let him find out the hard way. Please don't tell him about me writing
you this. I don't want any of our relationships to be in jeopardy. I am
approaching you as a brother, that is concerned for my nephew, and your
son. Let me know. He does not read my emails so what you tell me will remain
totally confidential.
Pete, I arrived here in Virginia
on tuesday evening. Scott got released from the hospital
on tuesday at around noon. Aaron will be here til the week end,
then I will be helping Scott with Matthew and I think Josh may come back too. I
am enjoying cooking for them and we are all eating good. I went to the store
the first day and went nuts, so we all will be sitting around rubbing our bellies
for a while. Scott is doing good, but I am glad I can be here to get him
to appointments he needs to be at, and help with the boys. I will hope to get
back to looking at pictures. We had a bit of trouble getting the computer
going, but Aaron figured it out. I will be in touch. Hope all is well
there.........moron
We got an even heavier rain
today. I had to have Aaron
take me to the ER and get a cathator because my prostate is swollen
and I couldn't pee. I got squared away, and Aaron is going back
tomorrow. Scott is doing pretty good, but is really sore. Other than that, all
is well, and we are just hanging in there. Hope all is good there.......moron
On April 21, 2013 at 12:23 AM The moron <moron48@hotmail.com>
wrote:
I went thru 13 years there
where I couldn't sleep without taking a bunch of pills and finally I went to
drinking a quart of whiskey at night to sleep, and I went into a
homeless program and realized that I was carrying around too much anger and
needed to let it all go.
Learning
to leave things from the past alone is a big part, so I really work on that.
I
feel like I have made a lot of progress in that, and you really have
helped me see myself as I need to see me. I thank you for that.
Being
bipolar does not make it easy, but I understand myself better, and deal with
things better, with lots of room for improvement.
The
guys I have hooked up with are heavy weights in the music industry and one guy
used to be big in film, so I have great contacts. (This
is the one that Scott called you on! Suddenly hes a disrespectful drunk.)
I
don't know if you ever saw my film from Mt. St, Helen's but I have it on disc
and can burn a copy for you if you want. That was a $15 million dollar deal but
when the authorities wrongfully got involved, we lost that. (Really?)
I
know you don't have your Facebook account anymore, but if you want to google
these guys and see what I have at my disposal, I will give you their names and
you can check it out. Tommy Nikosey is a Graphics artist, and may be
able to assist me in getting your slides reduced. He is a
mufti-millionare and he is really good at doing things for me quickly if
he has the time. I can call him if you want.
I hope your health holds up, and congratulations
on quitting smoking and drinking. I agree we did come from a pretty messed up
family, but I don't want to pass that along and don't want that to be my
legacy.
I hope you will read this, and
accept the apology. Take care, and I do love you because you are my big
brother. Please let me know.................(moron)
Do you even remember all of this?
See http://www.petesmemories.com/latestdale.html
Being mad at you takes effort on my part and I don't
indulge in that. I simply seek out people that are positive and are good for my
life. I am not going to start any dialog about this. I simply have moved on and
only have time for positive people and things.
Good luck with your life.
I
will make no further attempt to stay in touch with my brother!
Ooooh! Ooooh!
Theres more! Incredible! The gift that keeps on giving!
Re:
Reply
11/6/2017 7:18 PM
Here is my final
response in any matters with you. I am so done. I have told you about giving
you the check for $30,000, which you denied and then later in your writings,
you mentioned "when I received the money from moron", a complete contradiction, which is you, in every way. I
was willing to let things go and be civil but I got yanked back into your world
when you met up with Nita Cutler and the story about you having to be secreted
out of Canada. I am tired of your lies as you can't seem to tell the truth, and
that is not a simple thing of "well, that is how I saw it and you saw it
different".
You
are a liar and you can't seem to even understand simple truths, so I leave you
to your world. I don't need Lori calling me and telling me you ripped her off,
as I know you and know that doesn't even surprise me as she wasn't the first. I
really am disgusted at you for having to lie and then justify it. I have
documents of where you contradict yourself and was going to send
them, but I don't want to waste the time. Quite simply, you are not worth it. I
have heard enough from others of your badmouthing me and they know me better so
I don't worry about it.
I worked
hard to get back on my feet and have peace in my life and when I get calls
about you and your drama and ripping people off and lying about things, I just
have to dismiss it from my life. Too bad you don't have any moral compass and if
you're happy, good for you.
I liked
your little "half admission" about coming after me with a
"wiffle bat". Those are called rolling pins and are easy to kill
people with, which I believe was your intention. I left the house one day and
the next day you were screaming at me and that was shortly before the attack. I
don't know what set you off and now, I simply don't care.
Have a good
life if you can, and leave me completely out of it. In my eyes and heart, you
don't exist. I told Gloria the same thing and now she is dead. I don't wish you
any ill as Karma will be your undoing.
Please do
not contact me any more and go on with your life. I have peace and
any connection to you threatens it, so "no thanks."
Go ahead and
let every one know what a cold hearted SOB I am and do what you
choose.
I AM DONE. NO
MORE, END OF STORY
See http://www.petesmemories.com/memoir.html Leaving
Newfoundland;
I wanted to start school
in Washington State at the beginning of the year, so my parents sent me to stay
with friends until they finally rotated.
I never denied
$30,000. Half went to my lawyer. I paid your mortgage with the rest until it
was gone. Secreted out of Canada? Ripped Lori off? Where do you get this stuff?
I would love to see some documents that are contradictory. If I made an error,
I need to fix it! I have never badmouthed you to anyone. I write things down
so I dont forget, unlike you. No one can see this unless you show them. Karma
is so good to me! Im really glad I cleaned up my act!
If you have forgotten how
this started see http://www.petesmemories.com/biopt2d.html
From http://www.petesmemories.com/rebuttal.html
Well, I have to tell you that there was no lawsuit that I
am aware of that I won by default. See http://www.petesmemories.com/dale.html
Believe me or don't
but I have never seen these papers before this.
I told the lawyer
that you met, "that is my brother, just let it go".
I am not aware of any lawsuit that I won on default. If
you have information on it, I would like to see it, and I will put in writing
here, that I will not enforce it. I just don't know about it and need
to see it.
I do want to thank you for the legal papers because now I
can put a lean on your property and get some of what you ripped me
off for. (Lean on
this! iiIii)
Susan divorced me
right after I got her well and able to work again. 
I would ask that
when you copy and paste things I write, you would not edit them to make you
look good, but that is asking a habitual liar not to lie, and won't happen.
Just keep on lying
on your blog and I will keep laughing as people that know me but don't know you
are wondering what you are talking about. Your lies don't add up.
Enjoy as the more you write the dumber it gets. Oh well you were a pretty good
liar at one time but now, not so much. You get confused.
From http://www.petesmemories.com/fukme.html
1) I was in a serious
accident in my van in 1990, and received $40K from my insurance company. $15K
went to mom, and I had a receipt, and may still have it, but will need to look,
if you really want the truth and are going to use iitl
I remember the van. I
put the motor in it. Why are you talking about 40K and 15K? If
there was a Judy and tools money issue, that would have been a good
time to fix the money issue. I replaced the motor for free.
You crashed because you
blacked out while you were driving.
Can you tell me that
because I built a house and you didn't, that I had an advantage?
What?
You received part of land
you chose, and the same amount of money that I did.
I received no money.
5) why did you
come after me with the club?
You
probably dont remember the note you hung on the screen door.
It said I
am going to kick your ass, but only when I have witnesses so you
dont tern (sp) around and sue me. You can go ahead and tell mommy on
me.
The cops you called on
me said if I hadnt had that, they would need to arrest me. The whiffle bat that I
mortally wounded you with, and the note are in the sheriffs evidence locker.
You can see them anytime you like, during business hours.
I was a drunk. I
made a lot of poor choices. I wish I could fix all the wrong things I
did, but my conscience is clear.
I feel bad that you have to carry this in your heart. I apologize to
you for the pain I have caused, and I hope you can let it go.
(This is what an apology looks like!)
Fortunately I can talk to your boys and they will understand
as they know you are a liar too.
I encourage you to talk to my boys. Like me, they carry no
grudges.
The Gospel: Version #1
I am making my brothers side of the story
available. First I want to add something a friend of mine said. This is from
his facebook page.
Dan Humble
As an interrogator for over 30 years let me say
this. When someone doesn't directly answer a question and brings up
insignificant and unnecessary details during their monologue its called a stall
tactic and is commonly used by all liars.
Heres
how it all started.
Pete;
Happy birthday Dale. Hope you have a good day!
Dale Peterson
Thanks, I was wondering if you are serious and
looking to mend fences as we are not getting younger or is it just for show? I
am in the fence mending mode, and would like to think that I don't have the
energy left to hold any grudges. Hope you are there too.
Pete;
Show?
I hoped you would have a good day. That was
genuine. I have no fences to mend, and I carry no grudges. If the grudge you
are talking about was the perjured lawsuit that you won by default, then you
arent there, yet, either.
I have written Gloria out of my life, forever,
and I hold no grudge against her. I hope she lives to be a hundred so she can
relish in her chaos. We come from a fucked up family, and we are, all of us,
fucked up.
When I needed my family the most, and I am
talking about the whole family, Johnsons included, everyone abandoned me. Left
there, I would have felt like I deserved that, but then, everyone went on the
attack, and I am left, trusting NO-ONE.
The only people welcome on my property are my
children, and their families. I havent had any problems since I ran all the
troublemakers out of my life, and, I am relatively happy.
The last time I talked to Russ, he said you were
having problems. I am not heartless. If you feel like talking to me, there may
be some things I can do to help.
Dale
Peterson;
Well, I
have to tell you that there was no lawsuit that I am aware of that I won by
default. I told the lawyer that you met, "that is my brother, just let it
go". I told him that all I wanted
at the time was the rent that you didn't pay. There was 9 months that I didn't
get anything from you, and I had given you the $30K as per the will. The lawyer
was running up the money. That is why I had him stop. Yes, I am having
difficulties as I am no disability, and don't receive much money, and it took
me so long to get it, that I had to pay all of the back pay to catch up on
bills. All I wanted when you lived in the house, before I sold it, was to pay
the rent. Why you didn't, I don't know and I wanted to talk to see why that was
a problem, but we could not communicate. I just felt like I had tried to be
fair. When I loaned you the money to get Judy, and the money deal we had made
on the tools, I could see that it was a struggle for you, working at HP to make
payments and so I kind of let that go. I feel the same as you do, as I received
no help from the family, and I was being attacked for everything, myself. I
think that maybe we should talk. I agree, we had one fucked up family, and if
we want to make that out legacy, that is up to us. Personally, I am not
interested in having that be my final word with the family, and if others
choose to shut me out, that is up to them. I am done with Gloria and really was
pissed off when she sent me an email telling me that she was supposed to get
'everything'. She told me she was the "chosen one" and I told her
that I was done with her. She has that superior attitude that the screwed up
religion put in her head, and so I stay away from that too. I tried to be fair,
and as I said, I am not aware of any lawsuit that I won on default. If you have
information on it, I would like to see it, and I will put in writing here, that
I will not enforce it. I just don't know about it and need to see it.
To me, not talking to each other causes these
things to get built up, and sometimes they are either a result of bad rumors,
or some other source. I don't know.
I don't like to hash over all the things that
took place as I think we all were not ready to deal with it, and Gloria's
little "rip off scheme" pitted one against the other. He religion
listened to her telling them that we were lying and harassing her, so she took
the money, and they hid her. I am sure they got a little, but I have talked to
people that have left that church that knew Gloria and they knew how greedy she
was. I don't hold a grudge, but will not talk to her without an apology. I know
the money is gone, and that isn't really an issue, but I know that the idea
with her was to get everyone against everyone else so she could do her little
lying and stealing thing.
Anyway, my number is 336-699-6070, and I live
with a room mate, Stan and he is blind so he answers the phone most of the time
because it is a special caller ID. Call if you want or give me a number and I
will call you.
Thanks for the thoughts on my
birthday.............Dale
Pete;
Look at http://www.petesmemories.com/dale.html.
The suit says that we had a written agreement. We did not. It says they were
unable to find me to serve papers. I was here.
For the first time in my life, I have paid back
everyone, and owe nothing. The only reason I survived is because I had dirt to
stand on. I can offer you dirt to stand on that will never be taken away.
Other than that, I have nothing for myself. I
wish I had more to share.
We can communicate like this, almost as a chat,
or you can email me at pete@thepetersonranch.com. I don't do well on the phone!
Dale Peterson
Thanks
for letting me see this. Believe me or don't but I have never seen these papers
before this. This truly is the first time I have laid eyes on this. I guess that this information that I am going
to give you may let you know why I didn't know of this.I was working in a
machine shop and I was working Monday thru Thursday 12 hours a day and 10 hours
on Friday, and then 8 hours on Saturday. I did speak with Gordon Bones, my
attorney that you met, and I had knowledge of the other attorney, but I was
told that Gordon hired the other attorney because I has sol
but I was told that Gordon hired the other
attorney because I has sold the house and as you know, I had let you know that
I was going to sell it, and then I did tell you when I sold it. The other
attorney was hired by Gordon, because the buyers needed to take possession of
the property as I no longer owned it. I was never told the details as I was
busy.
In 1998, while this was happening, Susan had
been being treated for a "sinus infection" by her doctor, and I
discovered that she really was having symptoms of heart problems. I pushed her to
get checked out and finally, I just forced her to go to the doctor, and it was
discovered that she had over 90% blockage in two arteries. She had to go in for
emergency open heart surgery, and she was going to stay at her cousin's house
and let her aunt take care of her. Well, the cousin I knew well but didn't know
that he had a sister, Susan's other cousin, and no one really talked about her
because she was mentally off balanced. She was having an affair with a guy that
didn't exist, and she was driving Susan nuts because she was wanting to tell
Susan all about her "boyfriend'' and everyone, except the cousin knew that
this guy didn't exist, and of course "he" was always cheating on the
cousin, so it got too weird for Susan, and she wanted me to take her home to
take care of her. Well this meant taking time off for the family leave act, and
so instead of giving me the leave, I was fired. Fortunately we had bought a
small house when we got there in Arkansas, so we didn't have rent, but had to
pay utilities, and insurance and food, you know the essentials. My job paid
really well, and was one of the best paying in town, and Susan worked for Sears
as supervisor, and so we got our vehicles paid off and didn't have too many
bills.When we both lost our jobs, with me having to take care of Susan and
Susan not being able to work, our savings got hit really hard. I had to keep
the insurance up to pay for Susan's health care, and then I had to pay the note
on the house, that I borrowed to give you the $30K as per the will, and that
just ate it all away. I think if we could have talked, we may have been able to
work something out, but at that time, you were not wanting to talk to me, so it
really put me in a bad spot. I didn't want to sell my house as that was Jessica's
inheritance but I couldn't afford to keep it because I couldn't pay the $500.00
a month for the loan. I had to sell the house, and the only attorney's fees
were the ones that I paid to get our properties in our names. If I had not
gotten Gordon to get that squared away, Gloria would have been able to sell our
property. That cost me $17K to get all of that taken care of, and if you
remember when we went to see Bruce Lyons, Gloria's attorney, that is when we
found out that mom had put that "no fault" clause, that took Gloria
off the hook for having to account for all the money that went missing, and
could have allowed her to sell our property, regardless of the will. Mom knew
that Gloria was going to pull something, and didn't want to have her exposed as
the liar and thief that she was. At that point, I had to put my house on the
market, because otherwise I would have lost it outright. All I can go off of is
what Gordon told me, and the other attorney Greisen, was hired by Gordon so
that the sale would go through. I didn't know of the other money and the only
thing I can think of was that when I told you that the house was sold, and you
didn't move, Gordon hired Greisen to make sure that the house could be
delivered to the buyers. As to the other money, all I can figure that it was
for attorney fees and from what they told me was that they had to evict you
because you wouldn't move out, and the buyers were pushing to get in. I didn't
own the house at that time, but I had to be able to deliver it. This was all going
on while I was trying to take care of Susan, so I had very little involvement
in it. I was in a position to where I told Gordon that he needed to do what was
needed for me to make the sale go thru. I tried to talk to you a couple of
times on the phone about it, but you weren't talking to me about it, so I did
what I had to do. As I said, I was caring for Susan, which required me to be
there 24/7 with her care, so I did what I could and when the other money came
up, I told Gordon to just drop it. After I paid his bill of the $17K, that was
the last I heard of any of it. I do know that part of that money went to pay
the Greisen guy but I don't know what his role was in all of it. All I remember
was that Gordon was in touch with my real estate guy, and when they said you
were not moving, Gordon and the real estate guy took over from there. I was not
involved and the real estate guy said that he couldn't get a hold of you to
show the house, and I just told him that he need to deal with Gordon. I don't
know how much you have dealt with lawyers, but they will run away with
everything that they can dream up, and if you are in the position I was in, you
don't have much time to deal with everything, me being in the position with
Susan and all, I didn't ever talk to the Greisen guy. I don't know how he came
into it all, but he was hired and paid for by Gordon.
I was really stressed out as I was losing my house
that I worked so hard to build, and I was having to care for Susan, which meant
I had to be "on call" 24/7, and had to put her on the toilet and wipe
her ass. I had to cook for her, make sure she had her medications, and she
could not stand up alone, so I had to pick her up and lay her down and that was
round the clock. I wasn't sleeping, myself and so it just ate me up. I was
trying to keep the bills paid, and that was a challenge and I couldn't get any
help from anyone. I couldn't get food stamps, and was trying to maintain my
credit, because I had worked so hard to build it up and didn't want to lose it
in case I needed something. I also had received my patent at this time, and
that cost me over $16K, and if I had not had all the other things going on, I
could have gotten it marketed and that would have been all I needed.
I will have to cut it off here, for now, but I
need to look over these papers as I have never seen them. I may call Gordon, if
he isn't going to charge me for talking to him, as I have found most attorneys
charge for phone calls, and I can't afford it at all right now.
Maybe we can come up with something that will
get this squared away the way it should be, and make it right.
I will be in touch.......................Dale
I just wanted to add this. Susan divorced me
right after I got her well and able to work again but my knee (I have had it
replaced now) didn't allow me to return to work, so I gave her the house in
Arkansas and move to Iowa to be with Jessica. That may be why I never saw those
papers. I was homeless for about 5 months, and Susan would not forward my mail.
Susan just died on July 26th this year.
Pete;
This is why I don't want contact. You should
write a book. I don't want to argue, back and forth with you. Apparently, you
are satisfied with what you did, and I am not.
I have written a book, and you can find my side
of the story at http://www.petesmemories.com/biopt2d.html
Dale Peterson
I have read your story, and I am in the process
of writing a book, more about all of my life, not just this period. I don't
really know where you are going with this, but there are some discrepancies in
the timeline here. I am thinking that you may not want to know the real
happenings, but maybe so. I will give you the benefit of the doubt on that.
There were also some transactions that took place that you may or may not be
aware of, but I will put them here for you, if you want to use them, and if you
are seeking to put the truth of matters out there. I have no plans on arguing
with you, as that is not my intent.
I have read your story, and I am in the process
of writing a book, more about all of my life, not just this period. I don't
really know where you are going with this, but there are some discrepancies in
the timeline here. I am thinking that you may not want to know the real
happenings, but maybe so. I will give you the benefit of the doubt on that.
There were also some transactions that took place that you may or may not be
aware of, but I will put them here for you, if you want to use them, and if you
are seeking to put the truth of matters out there. I have no plans on arguing
with you, as that is not my intent. If you are interested in some facts that
were not mentioned, and you may not be aware of, I will put a few in here, and
see how you react to them, as I am not going to waste my time, if you are
avoiding the truth of things, and are going to write your story the way you
want, that makes it look like you were in the center of right, and you are
going to slant it for your purposes. If that is your intention, and you don't
want reality, then I would say for you to go ahead and write what you want, and
I won't use facts of statements that disprove what you are saying, and put you
in a light that you either don't see, or want to avoid seeing.
1) I was in a serious accident in my van in
1990, and received $40K from my insurance company. $15K went to mom, and I had
a receipt, and may still have it, but will need to look, if you really want the
truth and are going to use iitl
2) I don't know what having a "free"
caretaker in the house that I built means as I paid all my bills, and paid half
of the water, while mom paid the other half. It should have been paid in thirds,
with you , me and mom paying each one third. I was the one that cared for the
lawn, and even when the mower was all torn up, I paid out of my own pocket for
rebuilding the mower, by replacing the deck and the blades. That cost me nearly
$200.00 and I paid of it 100 %. I also replaced the roof, from the utility room
back to mom's room, and only asked that she paid for the material expenses
which was about $50.00 while I spent three days on the roof replacing the
paper, sealing the joints and replacing the gravel on it. I am very aware that
Gloria had mom convinced that I was "charging" her for repairs as I
had made a statement to Gloria one time that I was saving mom a lot of money
being there because every time I came up and fixed something for her, I was
saving her at least $45.00 in a service call, and Gloria translated that into
me saying that I was charging mom $45.00 for each time I came up and fixed
something for her. Many times, I paid for all of the materials and repairs
myself, and never charged her any "service" call fees. I never did
that, and if you believe Gloria on that, well, I am at a loss for where that
came from, other than Gloria's twisted mind.
The $15K was never recorded in dad's little
"ledger" but Gloria saw that receipt, and it was in the papers in
Gordon's office.
As far as me receiving "my
inheritance" that was that money that I was given.
Gloria had mom convinced I was costing her
money, when in fact I was saving her money.
I don't know if you paid for the materials for
the two porches you built, on the middle front, and west end, but even if she
did pay for the materials, the job you did on both porches was an excellent job
and well worth paying for materials only. Also the driveway was the same. It
was well, done, and I figure if they paid for materials only they were really
lucky to have had you there and you did a great job on the circle drive way and
it was well worth paying for the materials, just to have you do the labor. I
don't know about those things as they were not my business, and I just thought
that was between you and them, and didn't take anyone's word, especially
Gloria's word, so if you are going to start relying on her word about anything,
you are going to come up with some real messed up "facts" which will
not be true for the most part.
3) The will was mom and dad's last will and
testament and what they both wanted, and that allowed for you and I to have the
land, and Gloria to have the house and land it was on. I borrowed the money to
build the house, which was $60K. If I wanted to be a stickler about it, I could
have subtracted the $15K from that and paid you half of that, and been morally
and legally right. I just felt like there was enough money to go around, and
when I kept my part of the will and paid you half of the $60K that I did
borrow, and not subtract that $15K, from that. Can you tell me that because I
built a house and you didn't, that I had an advantage? You received part of
land you chose, and the same amount of money that I did. Once I handed you that
check, that house was legally mine, and you asked to live there. I tried to
help you out by saying yes, and that there would be a payment, due each month,
of $500.00 and you agreed. You made two payments, then made two half payments
in the rest of that year, and that was all you paid. I tried to talk to you,
but you would not talk to me, so I did what I had to. I explained that before
why I couldn't pay it, and $500.00 for that house was cheap and everyone has to
pay to have a roof over their heads. That was just enough to make the payment
and keep the house. What about that was unreasonable, and why did you stop
paying and then not let me know why?
4) I never said there was a written agreement,
but that was the verbal one as far as I knew. If it was not clear, shouldn't
you have let me know?
That is a start, and I will see what you do with
this, and then I will be fair, but if you can not be truthful, Judy can back up
some of these things and will. It is up to you. This is only read between you
and me, so I would like to keep it that way. If you want to put it out there
and not have any disregard for it being true, then I will put it out there we
can do that, but there are some things that don't make you look too good. I
know you were drinking a lot, and I felt sad for that aspect, but that doesn't
affect truth.
5) why did you come after me with the club?
Those are things I would like to know.
Let's see what happens with this
information..........Dale
I will
add to this, at Dales request. I will not respond any further. This guy just
wants to fight! I think everyone
deserves to tell their side of the story.
Dale Peterson
2:51am Oct 19
I was just seeing if you had any interest in
writing the truth, and noted your quote from our neighbor, the former policeman
"As an interrogator for over 30 years let me say this. When someone
doesn't directly answer a question and brings up insignificant and unnecessary
details during their monologue its called a stall tactic and is commonly used
by all liars."
I also note that when you post something on your
blog, you avoid answering questions, change the wording around, omit things,
and just put your spin on it.
You write "Look at www.petesmemories.com/dale.html
. The suit says that we had a written agreement. We did not. It says they were
unable to find me to serve papers. I was here.
For the first time in my life, I have paid back
everyone, and owe nothing. The only reason I survived is because I had dirt to
stand on. I can offer you dirt to stand on that will never be taken away.
Other than that, I have nothing for myself. I
wish I had more to share.
We can communicate like this, almost as a chat,
or you can email me at pete@thepetersonranch.com. I don't do well on the phone!
I read where it was checked that we had an oral
agreement.
Also, you didn't respond to any questions I
asked and when I was writing things that were pertinent to what you had
written, you are telling me that those are insignificant things?
How is it insignificant when you arm yourself
with a club and come after me to do me bodily harm, and I still don't know what caused that.
I agree with you on one thing. This is not
getting any where. You are lying here, you lied to Judy, telling her you were
dying, to get her to marry you, you lied to Judy telling her that the money
that I loaned you to move her from Mojave to Sacto was your money, and you are
lying about nearly everything that you write.
You are the proven liar, and I was foolish
enough to think you may have changed.
Well keep on lying, and you can put any slant on
it, publish it, and do what you want, as no one believes you anyway. I know
because the people we know in common tell me.
Also what was written when you say that for the
first time you have everyone paid back, I guess you didn't expect me to find
out about the lies you told to Judy, and I guess you didn't think I would speak
out about lying to me, and ripping me off.
You really should get your story straight as you
say in one place your sister took everything, (fairly accurate) Then you have
me taking things from you.
When I tried to work with you on the mortgage on
the house, you said you didn't have the money so I guess you went thru the $30K
pretty quick, but then your story falls apart where you and Denise had no
money, then you were buying things.
I think you need a reality check, but will never
have one. It was the same when you weren't paying me rent and I told you I had
sold the house and you had to move because I didn't own it any more, when you
sniveled "what am I supposed to do?"
Maybe you were supposed to pay rent like
everyone else and not take advantage of your brother.
You could try to explain why you wanted to do
bodily harm to me with the club when you attacked me too, but you won't. You
are a coward as well as a liar. Sad that everyone knows that.
Oh well, with you cutting yourself off from
everyone, they won't have to listen to your lies anyway.
I would ask that when you copy and paste things
I write, you would not edit them to make you look good, but that is asking a
habitual liar not to lie, and won't happen.
Enjoy your life, and thanks for the papers as
now, since you want to play games, I will be attaching your land for that $37K,
and at least my daughter will get something that you tried to steal from us.
Fortunately I can talk to your boys and they will understand as the know you
are a liar too.
This is private right now, but I can go public
too, and probably will if I feel like it. If you want to come clean, we can
work on that too, but I know that will never happen. Poor little old you got cheated
by everyone.
Just keep on lying on your blog and I will keep
laughing as people that know me but don't know you are wondering what you are
talking about. Your lies don't add up.
Enjoy as the more you write the dumber it gets.
Oh well you were a pretty good liar at one time but now, not so much. You get
confused.
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2:57am Oct 19
Hi Dale, I read a bit of this, but it was hard
to follow Terry's story. I will try again tomorrow, when I'm not so exhausted.
Thanks. The pages copied fine, I should have no trouble emailing them to you
tomorrow also. Take care. Sounds like a whole heap of strife with all these
dealings. Try to take it off your mind for a spell for your health's sake, I'd
say....Talk to you tomorrow smile
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Looks like everything copied fine. But will get
back to you later today.
"I can offer you dirt to stand on that will
never be taken away." < That sentence mystified me. What are you
talking about here?
I don't understand this either. More lies and
misdirection from him.
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I dont think you are too tired to carry a
grudge. I added this to my biography. I hope it makes you feel better!
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· http://www.petesmemories.com/fukme.html
. Once again, Happy Birthday.
·
Dale
· Wow, you really did some damage to your
brain. You are good at taking things I write and turning them around. Oh well,
Judy, your ex-wife is a liar, I am a liar, and all of the rest of the people
are liars. You are the only one that possesses truth. I hope your little
stories impress everyone that reads them. Fiction is always better than truth.
I was hoping that you had an ounce of truth left in you , but see that you
don't. All you are showing by putting this online is that you are a sick
person, and you can't tell the truth. I know because I talk to enough people
that know you, and they know the real deal.
I have had about enough with you, the Spin
Doctor. I am done with Gloria and now can close the book on you.
I do want to thank you for the legal papers
because now I can put a lean on your property and get some of what you ripped
me off for.
·
·
no reply
As I was in the process of closing out my
facebook account, I noticed several more blistering accusations. If you want
them public, send them to me in an email, and I will add them here. I dont
want to open my account to retrieve them.
Im really sorry you have to carry this around,
with you??????????????
End
Rebuttal??
The Gospel: Version #2
1) I was in a serious accident in my van in 1990, and received $40K
from my insurance company. $15K went to mom, and I had a receipt, and may still
have it, but will need to look, if you really want the truth and are going to
use iitl
I remember the van. I put the motor in it. Why are you talking
about 40K and 15K? If there was a Judy and tools money issue, that
would have been a good time to fix the money issue. I replaced the
motor for free.
You crashed because you blacked out while you were driving.
2) I don't know what having a "free" caretaker
in the house that I built means as I paid all my bills, and paid half of the
water, while mom paid the other half. It should have been paid in thirds,
with you , me and mom paying each one third.
Free caretaker means that you were paid off and
gone, and there was no water or anything else to split. I
don't know if you paid for the materials for the two porches you built, on the
middle front, and west end, but
You paid for the materials. You needed the rails to get insurance
for your mortgage. I did that for free.
3) The will was mom and dad's last will and testament and what they
both wanted, and that allowed for you and I to have the land, and
Gloria to have the house and land it was on.
There was no will and testament. Mom had a living trust, which she
was in the process of changing to remove you as a beneficiary. Gloria tried to
push it through while mom was brain dead, but she had it so fucked up,
it wouldnt go through. Must have been the sound mind and body
thing.
Can you tell me that because I built a house and you didn't,
that I had an advantage?
What?
You received part of land you chose, and the same amount of money
that I did.
I received no money.
4) I never said there was a written agreement, but that was the
verbal one as far as I knew. If it was not clear, shouldn't you have
let me know?
The lawsuit said we had a written agreement, otherwise
you wouldnt have won by default. If you had served the papers properly, I
would have appeared in court, and you wouldnt have won.
5) why did you come after me with the club?
You probably dont remember the note you hung on the
screen door.
It said I am going to kick your ass, but only
when I have witnesses so you dont tern (sp) around and sue me. You can go
ahead and tell mommy on me.
The cops you called on me said if I hadnt had that,
they would need to arrest me. The whiffle bat that I mortally wounded
you with, and the note are in the sheriffs evidence locker. You can see them
anytime you like, during business hours.
I was a drunk. I made a lot of poor choices. I wish I
could fix all the wrong things I did, but my conscience is clear.
You told Judy you were dying so she would marry you.
I told everyone I was dying. The doctors report is in my Social
Security Disability medical evidence.
I married her so that she and Nathan could have income, besides
welfare, and medical insurance. We didnt say Till death us do
part. We said Till it aint fun no-more. You really shouldnt speak
for Judy or anyone else. You are the one that is angry. I would
love to apologize to Judy, and offer her some help, also. I offered
help to Nathan, and as always, he was respectful, and nice to my face. I think
he is angry with me also, because I never heard from him again.
Fortunately I can talk to
your boys and they will understand as the know you are a liar too.
I encourage you to talk
to my boys. Like me, they carry no grudges.
You have hurt your brain
to the point that you dont make sense, anymore
Anyway, Heres the
argument you wanted so badly. I am putting this on line in a way that only you
can see it. If you share the address, you share the
content. Ill only show this to Dan if he decides to get into this.
In the process of closing my facebook account, I noticed you sent
several more blistering accusations. I like the one about intimidating
a 75 year old woman. If you want the world to see these last few
paragraphs, send them to me in an email, and I will add them to fukme.
I feel bad that
you have to carry this in your heart. I apologize to you for the pain I have
caused, and I hope you can let it go.
The offer stands. I have
a property you can do anything with, except sell. It can go to Jessica when you
die, unless you talk me out of it!
Email your buddy,
Russ.
If you are wondering where the original
bio manuscript went, you can find it at http://www.petesmemories.com/biopt2d.html .
My bio is about me, and I wont let you ruin it.
The Gospel: Version #3
11-5-2017
This is the latest from my brother:
Last year, before Scott passed away, Dale
unfriended me from Facebook. I dont use Facebook, so I was unaware of this. I
found out when I wished him a happy birthday last year. I got no response. This
year, when I sent birthday greetings, I got this response
This is the latest correspondence with Dale.
On October 30, 2017 at 4:49 PM Dale Peterson
<dalepeterson48@hotmail.com> wrote:
I got your message. I really don't see any
future in continuing to stay in contact if it is going to be like it was. I am
not going to go into any of the old crap so if this is about
"keeping in touch" like we were, I am not interested. This is just
like the rest of our communication where you have the "my way or the
highway" attitude and if that is how you still are and haven't seen any
need for change, I am simply not interested. You are my brother and I can't do
anything about that, but I don't think you have been what a brother should be.
Wayne and I are very close and that is what brothers do. We keep in touch and
are glad to see each other and treat each other right. You have an email
account and can contact me if you feel something is important. Otherwise, I
prefer to just go our separate ways and leave it at that. It really is up to you.
I have written a book that I am getting published and have bought a nice little
house near the beach and have a wonderful partner and she treats me right, so I
am doing fine. Would I change things that happened between us, yes, but I can't
so if things haven't changed, I am happy on my own.
From: Terry Peterson
<pete@thepetersonranch.com>
Sent: Monday, October 30, 2017 8:39 PM
To: Dale Peterson
Subject: Re: Reply
My way or hiway? Same old crap? If things
are the same? What are you getting at? What do I need to change? Every six
months you are mad at me, and I never know why. I must be a horrible person for
you to be angry with me all of the time! I think about you every day, and I wonder
where you are, and what, and how you are doing.
It is comforting to know that you have a place
and a partner. I am glad you have a good relationship with Wayne. I would like
to have stayed in touch with moms side of the family, but so many bad things
have been spread about me, and I never gave my side of the story because I
really dont care what anybody thinks, including you. I have had everything
taken away from me so many times, and I struggle to survive, but I have a place
and a good partner also.
I dont know what you expect from me in order
for us to have civil communication. A simple update like what you just wrote is
all I expect. We are the end of the Peterson family, aside from our offspring.
I try to stay in touch with your daughter, and I rarely see my own son. They
have their own lives, and are always busy, but they keep me up to date. I miss
talking to Scott two or three times a month, and I have two grandsons that I
have never met.
The only change in my life is activity slowing,
and mellowing of the temperament. I honestly would like to stay in touch. So,
its really up to YOU!
Your brother
And, finally
---------- Original Message ----------
From: Dale Peterson <dalepeterson48@hotmail.com>
To: Terry Peterson <pete@thepetersonranch.com>
Date: October 30, 2017 at 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: Reply
Being mad at you takes effort on my part and I
don't indulge in that. I simply seek out people that are positive and are good
for my life. I am not going to start any dialog about this. I simply have moved
on and only have time for positive people and things.
Good luck with your life.
I
will make no further attempt to stay in touch with Dale!
Ooooh! Ooooh!
Theres more! Incredible! The gift that keeps on giving!
Re:
Reply
11/6/2017 7:18 PM
Here is my final
response in any matters with you. I am so done. I have told you about giving
you the check for $30,000, which you denied and then later in your writings,
you mentioned "when I received the money from Dale", a complete
contradiction, which is you, in every way. I was willing to let things go and be civil but I got
yanked back into your world when you met up with Nita Cutler and the story
about you having to be secreted out of Canada. (?????) I am tired of your lies as you can't seem to tell the truth, and
that is not a simple thing of "well, that is how I saw it and you saw it
different".
You are
a liar and you can't seem to even understand simple truths, so I leave you to
your world. I don't need
Lori calling me and telling me you ripped her off, as I know you and
know that doesn't even surprise me as she wasn't the first. I really am
disgusted at you for having to lie and then justify it. I have documents of where you contradict yourself
and was going to send them, but I don't want to waste the time. Quite
simply, you are not worth it. I have heard enough from others of your
badmouthing me and they know me better so I don't worry about it.
I worked
hard to get back on my feet and have peace in my life and when I get calls
about you and your drama and ripping people off and lying about things, I just
have to dismiss it from my life. Too bad you don't have any moral compass and
if you're happy, good for you.
I liked
your little "half admission" about coming after me with a
"wiffle bat". Those are called rolling pins and are easy to kill
people with, which I believe was your intention. I left the house one day and
the next day you were screaming at me and that was shortly before the attack. I
don't know what set you off and now, I simply don't care.
Have a good life if you can, and leave me completely
out of it. In my eyes and heart, you don't exist. I told Gloria the
same thing and now she is dead. I don't wish you any ill as Karma will be your
undoing.
Please do not contact me any more and go on
with your life. I have peace and any connection to you threatens it, so
"no thanks."
Go ahead and
let every one know what a cold hearted SOB I am and do what you
choose.
I AM DONE. NO
MORE, END OF STORY
..
Ill bet, dear reader, that
you thought that was going to be the end of this!
I knew this day would
come. It took a little longer than I thought, but heres whack a mole popping
his head up, once again.
from Dale Peterson
Hi, well I have found myself in a pickle and so I figured that I
would ask for your help. I helped
you when I could and now I need it so I will ask. I figure the
worst is you can say no. My car is dying on me and I have found an excellent
deal on a NIssan Pathfinder that is in great shape and the retail
should be from $4500 to $6500 and the guy wants $2000 for it. I have driven it
and it is in excellent shape. I don't have the money to buy it so I need to either
borrow the $2000 or get a co-signer on the loan. I will set up the payment to
come automatically out of my Social Security so there is no risk for you.
I know our relationship has been strained and I figure that if you want to be
brothers, we need to help each other. The past is just that and I don't
live there anymore. I would appreciate it if you can let me know if you can
help me. You know that I am good at my
word and will pay this so that you never have to spend any money on
this at all. Andrea tried to co-sign but her credit is maxed out. We have been
together for five years now and she insists that we have full coverage on all
vehicles so that will apply to this vehicle as well.
All I can do is ask and leave it up to you. I hope you will help
me, please.
Thank you.........Dale
My response;
Terry Peterson<pete@thepetersonranch.com>
6/6/2019 8:39 PM
#1. I dont remember getting any help from you.
#2. YOU strained our relationship!
#3. Your word means nothing to me. You are the worst kind of liar
there is.
I will help you. I can co-sign.
.
Now! Watch this get flipped!
----------
Original Message ----------
From: Dale Peterson <dalepeterson48@hotmail.com>
To: Terry Peterson <pete@thepetersonranch.com>
Date: June 7, 2019 at 11:47 PM
Subject: Re: Hello
I want to thank you for offering to co-sign for me. I was able to
swing it and got the vehicle. I read from some of your blogs and looks to me
like you harbor a lot of resentment towards me. I know that I made more than my
share of mistakes in life and didn't handle things as well as I would have
liked. I don't harbor any ill feelings towards you and if you really feel this
way, perhaps we shouldn't communicate. I will leave that up to you. I have apologized for the past and I have moved on. That
is just where I am. Good luck to you and I hope you are well and happy.
I don't know what more to say. Best to
you..............Dale
I missed the apology somewhere! I harbor NO resentment. I have
simply recorded the communication between us over the years. I have not made
any of these pages available to the public. This is an accurate record of the
nonsense that I have endured.
Heres the apology!!! You thought this was finished?
Todd, sorry we haven't been able to connect. I really feel like
our family has taken a lot of hits over the years but I feel like forgiveness
and a little love and kindness is crucial. I want you to know that I will never
forget the help you gave me on building my house. I couldn't have done it
without you. I totally understand you being drawn to Colleen's family and am
glad you have that experience. I think that you know me and I feel like I know
you and I hope we are good. I really hoped that spending the time with Scott
would be helpful to our relationship and was really sorry when that went south.
Scott really had a hard row to hoe and did a pretty good job considering all
that was thrown at him. I wish I could have been able to have a relationship
with your dad but that wasn't meant to be either. I had no idea that he had
such hatred for me, all my life until I read his blog. I wish that could be
different but I don't think it ever will. I hope you and he
have have a good relationship and hope that he can live his life out
in peace.
One thing I really need to bring up with you is this
factor. Quite simply, since your dad attacked me with the rolling pin, back
then, he had in mind to either put me in the hospital or the morgue. I don't
know what triggered it but that is also in the past. When I paid him the money
that I owed him ($30K) back around 96, he wanted to continue to stay in my
house and I told him that he needed to pay me $500 a month, since I had to take
out that much to pay him off per the will. He paid 2 months and then later on
he paid 2 half payments and that was over a period of over a year. When I hired
the lawyer to take care of my real estate, he went ahead with the lawsuit
against your dad and the judgement that followed for nearly $39K for back rent
and damages to my house. I didn't know about that until probably 2002 or later.
That was money that really came out of my pocket and since at the time of the
lawsuit, Susan was undergoing open heart surgery and I was not able to put
myself into taking care of all with my house. Since your dad didn't pay the
rent, which he was to pay directly to the loan company, I didn't find out that
I was in arrears until they were ready to foreclose on me. Anyway, I did get a
judgement against him, which I can send along with this and here is what I need
to ask of you.
That house was my inheritance and I feel that
since your dad put me in the position to have to sell the house or lose it, he
owes me the amount of the judgement.What I will ask you is this. I
have two ways to collect that money and feel like it is mine. I can put a lien
against his property, which I figure will cause him a lot of distress and maybe
even damage his health or I can get a promise from you that when he passes, you
can assure me that I will receive that money from his estate. you will probably
be the executor of his will and estate, I do think that you and Scott's kids
should get the bulk of the estate and if you can assure me that you will
reimburse me for the amount just short of $37K, I will not put a lien on his
property. I don't want any bad blood, but that was something I wanted to pass
on to Jessica and because of how I was dealt with, I didn't get the chance. I
hope you will let me know what you think on this and if you want to work it out
so as not to stress out your dad.
I hope you can see that I am being
straight up with you and don't want any problems but this was something I had
to pass on to my kid and I wasn't able to because of what your dad did to me. I
know he has different stories about what he says took place but I have proof of
what I am saying and can provide proof of this to you, in your dad's own words.
I hope this can be worked out and I trust you
that if you promise me this, you will see it through.
I hope we can be closer than we have been and I
hate to drag you into this but I just thought if I could not rile your dad, it
would be best.
Please let me know what you think and we can
discuss this further if you choose.
Thanks and know that I love you, Colleen
and the kids..........Uncle Dale
The Gospel: Version #4
Original Message ----------
From: Dale Peterson <dalepeterson48@gmail.com>
To: Pete <pete@thepetersonranch.com>, todd@thepetersonranch.com
Date: 12/31/2020 1:47 PM
Subject: All she wrote
Terry and Todd. I don't know how Todd got in all of this but
this is the timeline of what happened and when. I really have tried to bring
peace but it is always attacked so I am sending this, spin it however you want
but I need to let the anger go and since this is all ancient history, do what
you like.
I hope both have a good new year and will leave it at that.
Dale
Timeline for Terry
1983 I am working in Klamath Falls and received a call from Mom asking me if I
would come down to California to take care of their place for her and Dad and
in return Dad would send me to college. I agreed and came in May of 1983 and
started College at American River CC in Sacramento. I attended classes on
Monday, Wednesday and half a day Friday and I also worked on Tuesdays,
Thursdays and half of Friday at the machine shop over in Roseville. That was my
pocket money as I received none from Mom and Dad.
1985 Dad comes to me and tells me I have to quit school, get a full time job
and move out because my brother's wife had left him and he needed to come live
there with his two boys that were in High School. That ends college for me. I
can provide my transcripts for school from '83-'85. Terry's side of that story
was that David Joyce "stole" his wife from him, not that she left
him.
1987 Dad has the land split into three parcels. Dad tells me that he had
offered to loan Terry the money to build a house on land that was given to him
and he declined. He asked me if I wanted to build a house and he would loan me
the money. I agreed and proceeded to build the house with the help of my
nephew, Todd.
1990 Terry convinces Judy that he is dying and wants someone to take care of
him in his "last days". Judy asks for medical records and he can't
produce them so the marriage ends shortly thereafter. I don't know who was at
fault in that marriage but since Judy was a good friend, I am sure Terry didn't
tell me why it "was her fault". He claimed that he didn't tell her
that he was terminal and laid it all off on Judy for the end of the marriage.
1990 Dad passed away and Terry was given his 1 ton Ford diesel pick up truck.
He also wound up with Dad's tractor, all of the tools with belonged to Dad and
me. I know he feels like he got the short end of the stick but I happen to be
the recepient of that award.
1992-93 My brother, Terry, still living at the folks place is working on
something and I am up visiting and everything was pleasant. I left for my house
and said "See ya tomorrow" to Terry. The next day, I arrive up at the
house to be greeted by aggressively by Terry, screaming and yelling in my face,
spit flying out of his mouth to "shut up you fucking moron". Every
attempt I made to speak just triggered more so I turned and left. Dad had
passed away in 1990 and he made me promise him that I would look after Mom. I would
visit her every day to check up on her and take care of whatever she needed
done, mowing the grass, fixing the roof or septic tank, things of that
nature. I didn't want the stress on Mom so I attempted to let Terry know that
and was met each time with him in my face screaming with spit flying and I
couldn't get a word out. This happened every time Mom wasn't around and I was
up checking on her place and I was getting tired of it.Since I couldn't say a
word, I left Terry a note one day when Mom was gone telling him that if he
wanted to "duke it out" make sure there were witnesses and I asked
him to meet me face to face. I left the note in the screen door knowing he
would see it before Mom came home and I didn't want to stress her out.
Prior to this, I approached Mom letting her know what was happening and she
"didn't want to upset Terry" and made me promise to not hurt him.
(Yeah, wow) On the day I left the note, I was home with my wife and went up to
Mom's to check the water on her lawn. I saw Terry sitting in a chair in the
shade, drinking beer, which was pretty usual. As I was walking with my back to
him, he approached quickly and pinning me up against the fence so I had no
choice but to fight, with a rolling pin in his hand with a strap around his
wrist to keep from it coming out of his hand. He said something about
"Taking care of me" or "Putting the hurt on me" and I told
him to back off. He struck me once in the forearm when I moved in to disarm
him. I put him on the ground and neutralized him and he started pulling my
hair. I got mad and struck him around the eye several times and when I got him
to quit fighting, I got up and called 911. I don't know what his story was but
I can imagine as the cops wouldn't take him in or investigate. I found the
rolling pin along with a fist full of my hair in the empty garbage can. I went
home and that was that.
1996 In February,Mom gets remarried and withdraws from me, not even talking to
me.She had Terry and Gloria living with her in April and wants me to move out
of my house. Dad had me put the building permit in my name for this exact
reason. I owned the house and they owned the land. Mom is stressed over money
and I had paid her on the loan for my house and don't think Terry or Gloria had
any income. Since she is intimidated by both of them, she wants me to move out
of my house. She gives me the money I had paid on the loan and wanted me out in
two (2) weeks. I told her I would do that but I could only grab my stuff and
go, I wouldn't be able to clean too, on such short notice. Terry moves into my
house.
1996 Mom dies in September. Gloria disappears with all of the money and can't
be reached.
1997 Gloria is dragging her feet on getting the land in Terry and my names so I
hire an attorney. Our parents will wanted me to pay Terry $30K, half of the
loan for the house and that way, we would both have two acres and $30K and
Gloria would get the folks house. I arrange to get a loan on my property to pay
Terry the $30K for his part of our inheritence. Since I was living in Arkansas,
I flew to California after speaking to Terry on the phone about the money I
owed him. When I handed him the check, I asked him when he would be moving out.
He said to me "What am I supposed to do?" and asked if he could stay
in my house. I told him that he would have to pay $500.00 per month to
cover the loan and taxes. I really didn't want him there but he didn't seem to
have anyplace to go and so I told the renter I had lined up that I was going to
let my brother stay there.
1997 April, Terry receives $30K in a check from me. He agrees to pay me $500.00
rent to remain in my house. He damands to pay the mortgage company directly for
some reason and I didn't want to hassle about it as it didn't matter as long as
it was paid.He pays the rent for June and July. He stops paying and doesn't
tell me. Terry either spent all of the money ($30K) that I gave him three
months earlier or consciously decided to not pay any more rent as he had agreed
to. I start getting notices from the mortgage company and I had to get the
bills caught up. I phoned Terry and told him he had to pay rent and again in
his weak little helpless voice I hear "What am I supposed to do?" I
informed him that he had to pay rent somewhere and $500 was pretty damn cheap
for a decent house like that. I could have gotten over twice that on the market
as a rental. Around December, Terry made half a payment and then around January
another half payment. He never paid again. He claims in his blog that Gloria
and I "squandered our inheritance" but he either went through $30K in
two months or conciously decided that I should pay his way.
Terry writes in his blog: Terry: I received no money.
And then he writes another time: Terry: I had no income, so I kept the mortgage
paid with money that Dale was required to pay me, in order to claim his
property. When that ran out, I was hoping we could make some arrangement so
that Dale could keep his place, but he put it up for sale, and evicted me.
The bold italics above are copy and paste of Terry's exact writing.
I guess I need to have it explained to me how me handing Terry $30K and then
three months later he can't pay the rent he agreed upon ($500.00 per month) and
I am the bad guy??? In his own words, after he was evicted (by the new owners,
not me) that he only had money for "beer, cigarettes and dog food"
and that he and Denise had to eat at a restaurant each morning to use the
restroom. At no time in our conversations about him not paying rent did he
offer any solution or communicate in any way that he wanted to try to work
something out. I know that he was drinking heavily and smoking pot at the time.
Again in all of this, I am the bad guy.
1998 My wife has to have emergency double bypass surgery on her heart so I have
to quit my job to care for her and now I was really in trouble, as I had two
households to support, mine and my wifes and my house where Terry was living.
Since I was unable to go to California from Arkansas, I decided to sell my
house even though the market was depressed. I informed Terry and asked if he
would make sure the real estate agent could show the house. Terry agreed but
when the real estate agent would call ahead, most of the time Terry would be
home and not answer the door. Whe I finally got an offer, I had to pay out of
pocket for repairs to the house, damage that Terry had done. I even had to
replace the toilets, which were only 10 years old. In May, I sold the house and
it was to close on June 1st. I informed Terry of the sale and he still didn't
move out and the sheriff had to put him out for the new owners because I no
longer owned the house. Back earlier in the year, I had started an eviction on
him but gave it up because he was my brother and I was dealing with my wifes
illness. I no longer owned the house as of June 1st, 1998 and Terry was evicted
at a later date than that. The attorney that started the eviction, finished it
and I was awarded $37,961 by the court in the eviction that my lawer had
proceeded with for damages, past due rent, lawyers fees and interest. That was
filed on 6-14-2000 and I never saw the papers or had any knowledge of it until
Terry sent me the papers in 2013.
Bullet points: Things that I shouldn't have had to do.
1. I didn't want to sell the house and would have never done so if I weren't
put in such a position of losing it or selling it.
2. Tried to help out someone that wouldn't help themselves. (Other than a few
months), Terry lived at the folks place from 1985 until 1996 when he moved into
my place and resided there until June of 1998. He was briefly married and lived
in Southern California for a short time. Terry claims that I evicted him from a
house I never owned and claims I never helped him out in any way. In his blog,
he claims he has hated me from birth but that hatred wasn't strong enough to
keep him from coming over to my house nearly every evening to drink and hang
out for nearly (7) seven years.
3. That house was inheritence for my daughter to pass on to her kids and make
hers and their lives a little easier and so I am now trying to collect the
judgement so that I can pass a little something on to my daughter.
4. When Mom passed in 1996, I stayed away since I knew I would have my house
eventually and I didn't really care about all of the money that my sister stole
and figured if I tried to negotiate for any of my tools, that would not go well
since my brother had possession of them. My tools have my name etched in them
along with my two Kennedy machinist tool boxes.
I am not getting into a discussion about this, this is what happened and unless
someone has proof otherwise, I say this will stand. I simply want what came out
of my pocket and what is rightfully mine.
Odd that I am the liar of the bunch when Terry claims that Judy and I are both
liars about his "terminal illness". I can totally understand why he
denies coming after me with a rolling pin as that was simply a very sick and
demented thing to do. There was only two outcomes with his intent, death or
serious injury to me.
As for a thumbnail, Terry claims he was mistreated" by the Johnson family
(our mother's side) but I really don't know what he expected them to do. He was
never social or did anything to keep in touch with them. He was feuding with
his mailman, the neighbors, his ex-wife, Judy, in fact there were few people
that weren't "screwing Terry over". I introduced Terry to many of my
friends from the music studio and he burned all the bridges with them. I know I
have my many flaws but I do have some good friends and I tried to get Terry
some contacts when he moved to Sacramento in 1985. Terry started his
online blog, quoting emails and correspondence with me out of context. We did
correspond and I did get angry at some of the things that Terry alleged and I
tried to apologize for any wrongdoing to him, which he told me "It isn't
worth anything". That was in 1997 when I flew out to Sacramento to pay him
the $30K I owed him from our parents will. Terry has never apologized for
anything that he has done and tells me it is all my fault that our relationship
was bad. If one reads the blog, one may see a pattern of Terry being the victim
of all of this abuse and all the while, he did nothing wrong and was simply
trying to "survive". When I was renting my house to him (which he
claims I didn't own), I would have been happy to work out something with him to
allow him to stay in the house but he expected to stay in the house completely
rent free. I would have had no problem with that but I did take a small
mortgage to pay him the money I owed him from the will. If I had not paid him
he could have stayed in the house until the taxes were due and caused me to
lose the property to past due taxes. I don't know when Terry received his title
but I received mine around June of 1997 and my attorney did work to try to get
both Terry and myself our property transferred to our names.
I am finding out that Terry has been using the correspondence between us to get
his kids on "his side" and against me and the only reason I can see
for that is to justify his actions from his attack with the rolling pin (which
he claims was a wiffle bat) to not paying rent for staying in my house and
damaging the house, which I had to pay for out of my pocket. I have never tried
to turn his kids against him and in fact have tried to encourage them to have a
relationship with him. I get the feeling now that when I went to stay with
Scott, he was trying to set me up to show me out to be the bad guy. I hate to
think that Scott was in on it but with me seeing the correspondence between
Terry and me and Scott and me and to know that Terry was sharing things I asked
him to keep confidential, I can only assume he was working on getting others to
believe what he had been claiming and I am the bad guy.
I have done plenty of things wrong in my life and I am not proud of many of
them. One thing I can say is that I never stole from or cheated any family out
of money or possessions. I had struggles with drugs and worked hard to deal
with them. I have taken medication for many years and Terry was always judging
me for "taking a handful of pills" every day. I was on medication for
injury to my back but I was always a bit baffled that someone that was drunk
everyday and smoking pot every chance he got, judging me for anything that I
did. I never judged him and only told him to his face when I thought he had a
problem.
I worked hard to build my house and it was meant to be my retirement. When I
got the title to my house in '97, I had a tenent that was going to move in and
pay reduced rent and fix up the place in places I didn't get a chance to finish
when I built the house. When Terry asked if he could remain, I told him he had
to pay $500 per month as that covered the mortgage and taxes and I told my
tenent that I was going to let my brother stay as he needed a place to live. I
don't know of any place around that property that would rent out for $500 a
month that sat on 2 acres. I was paying that mortgage payment for the nine
months that Terry didn't pay in the '97-'98 year. I would have kept paying for
that and my own place in Arkansas but because of my wife's illness, I had to
quit my job and so I had no money for either household. Everyone has to pay
rent to live somewhere and I felt that $500 was a super good deal. My tenent
was going to pay more but I chose to let Terry stay there. I only wish I had
gotten it in writing. I know that Terry was drinking heavy and smoking pot
still, in '97 and maybe that is why he doesn't remember certain things. In his
paperwork about our sister Gloria, it mentions that Terry's deed was delayed
but not mine, so I don't know where the claim that I didn't own the house came
into play but I have never heard of a situation where you can get a mortgage on
property you don't own.
When Terry showed me the paperwork from the court judgement against him, I had
no intention of trying to collect it. It is money that came out of my pocket
and with Terry's attitude towards me and the whole situation, I am going to do
my best to collect it. He owes it and should pay it. I am forced to live on
very little social security because of my not paying into SSA when I was
playing music and I didn't start a 401 or retirement plan because I felt like
the house was going to be mine forever and I would eventually pass it on to my
daughter.
I just saw, today, where I had contacted Todd, Terry's oldest son to try to get
it set up to collect this money after Terry passes as I was trying not to cause
a lot of stress and thought that hopefully, Todd knows me well enough to
understand that this was all done legallly through the courts and even though Terry
didn't understand that his lawyer acted as his agent to certain things, the
judgement was ordered and stands. I was hoping to not get into a big mess and I
am not going to do that, even now. The name calling and arguing is done and I
feel bad for my part in certain things that I said but I still am owed that
money and will be forced to collect it through my attorney. I know Terry
doesn't feel he owes it but there are so many contradictions in his statements
over the time period that it shows that alcohol was a huge factor in a lot of
the problems.
I feel bad that we are the family that we are. We should be coming together and
instead, it just gets worse and I have always tried to make ammends and get
some kind of relationship going. Yeah, I have screwed up my share and let my
anger get the better of me but I am owed this money and I feel like I need this
money, partly to live on and partly to pass on to my daughter, since that was
my initial intention. I feel like Terry's "blog" has me just butting
in, unwanted, and so with me seeing that Todd has stopped corresponding with me
in any fashion, I feel bad but I guess that is where this whole thing is now. I
am so sorry it came to this. Wish I could fix things but I have tried and only
get labled as Terry's "Wack-A-Mole". The most frustrating thing out
of all of this is that no one will communicate and I don't know what happened
to turn things so bad. I have never heard what it was that I was supposed to
have done to start all of this. I would love to know and if I did something
wrong I would love to make some kind of ammends. Not knowing what I am supposed
to have done is what baffles me the most.
I guess that my leaving a note to Terry was maybe the wrong thing to do but
when you have a crazy drunk screaming in your face with spit flying when you
try to talk can have that affect on you. Also, I was supposed to have evicted
Terry when he refused to pay rent or was unable after receiving $30K from me,
in accordance with our parents will. The fact that the house didn't belong to
me any more and he was evicted by the sheriff by the new owners can't be
factored in because it makes Terry look bad. Yeah, I am the bad guy. I wouldn't
pay for his rent and then when I was forced to sell my house in a depressed
market, that is my fault too.
Terry talks about being a "real man". Well, one thing I know is that
a real man would take care of his own obligations, pay for the roof over his
head and not leave a legacy of hatred with his kids.
After the last email I sent to Todd, asking for confidentiality, I understand
that word has no meaning in our family. Looks like Terry uses his kids to keep
his hatred fueled and that is on him. I can now see that he did the same with
Scott. Since no one can see that he has blamed everything on everyone else and
has not one bit of blame in anything, I am amazed that anyone that reads his
crap can't see that. Judy, his ex-wife, Lori, all of my friends that I
intorduced him too, me and anyone that remotely sees the flaw here, all are
liars and he is the only one telling the truth. I think he could bottle up his
secret to success and sell it. I think he may be what is called a narcissist.
Narcissistic personality disorder one of several types of personality
disorders is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of
their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration,
troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But then again, Hey,
I am the liar here.
I have no desire to be part of this family if Terry can't own his faults and
see where he fucked up. He chose drinking and smoking pot over everything so I
have a hard time feeling sorry for him and don't want him in my life if that is
how he chooses to be.
Anyway this is the timeline as it happened and I figured since I am such an
inspiration to Terry, he can edit this to make himself look right and I will
have made his day. I will do what I have to do and leave the rest behind. It is
too taxing and I am really trying to live with peace within. I apologized to
Terry in person and have in many emails and never once did he admit any
wrongdoing or apologize in any way. Thankfully Terry is the only one calling me
a liar so I have trust from those that matter to me. Terry says I am the worst
kind of liar and he is correct, I can't lie for shit so I stick to truth. Way
to go, big brother.
This is it, once and for all. I really feel kind of foolish even adding this in
but in all of the writings, I have come to realize a couple of things. Terry
either was so affected by drinking and smoking pot that he fails to remember
things correctly or he is just pathological. It could even be a little of both.
Since I don't see his blog beginning with" Once upon a time" I guess
he believes what he writes. I have not met too many people that claim that
everything was everyone else's fault and have that be true, but hey, when you
write a story, you can be anything you want.
Since this is all ancient history, it is out there and now I have got to move
on so I am closing the door on the whole mess and leaving it behind. Good luck
to everyone and let the chips fall where they may.
Chuckle of the century:
Terry wrote me and in his email said "I hoped you would have a good day.
That was genuine. I have no fences to mend, and I carry no grudges". This
was about 6 years ago.
He responded to an email from last year with the following, all in caps, which
is the equvilant of shouting on a computer.
Terry:
#1. I dont remember getting any help from you.
#2. YOU strained our relationship!
#3. Your word means nothing to me. You are the worst kind of liar there is.
I will help you. I can co-sign.
If you have gotten this far, you are either
Dale, or, you are one sick puppy!
Im sure we can expect new and improved versions
of the truth! Soon!
End for now