11-5-2017
This is the latest
from my brother:
Last year, before
Scott passed away, Dale unfriended me from Facebook. I dont use Facebook, so I
was unaware of this. I found out when I wished him a happy birthday last year.
I got no response. This year, when I sent birthday greetings, I got this
response
This is the latest
correspondence with Dale.
On October 30, 2017 at 4:49 PM Dale Peterson
<dalepeterson48@hotmail.com> wrote:
I got your message. I
really don't see any future in continuing to stay in contact if it is going to
be like it was. I am not going to go into any of the old
crap so if this is about "keeping in touch" like we were, I am
not interested. This is just like the rest of our communication where you have
the "my way or the highway" attitude and if that is how you still are
and haven't seen any need for change, I am simply not interested. You are my
brother and I can't do anything about that, but I don't think you have been
what a brother should be. Wayne and I are very close and that is what brothers
do. We keep in touch and are glad to see each other and treat each other right.
You have an email account and can contact me if you feel something is
important. Otherwise, I prefer to just go our separate ways and leave it at
that. It really is up to you. I have written a book that I am getting published
and have bought a nice little house near the beach and have a wonderful partner
and she treats me right, so I am doing fine. Would I change things that
happened between us, yes, but I can't so if things haven't changed, I am happy
on my own.
From: Terry Peterson
<pete@thepetersonranch.com>
Sent: Monday, October 30, 2017 8:39 PM
To: Dale Peterson
Subject: Re: Reply
My way or hiway? Same old crap? If things are the same? What are you
getting at? What do I need to change? Every six months you are mad at me, and I
never know why. I must be a horrible person for you to be angry with me all of
the time! I think about you every day, and I wonder where you are, and what,
and how you are doing.
It is comforting to
know that you have a place and a partner. I am glad you have a good
relationship with Wayne. I would like to have stayed in touch with moms side
of the family, but so many bad things have been spread about me, and I never
gave my side of the story because I really dont care what anybody thinks,
including you. I have had everything taken away from me so many times, and I
struggle to survive, but I have a place and a good partner also.
I dont know what you
expect from me in order for us to have civil communication. A simple update
like what you just wrote is all I expect. We are the end of the Peterson
family, aside from our offspring. I try to stay in touch with your daughter,
and I rarely see my own son. They have their own lives, and are always busy,
but they keep me up to date. I miss talking to Scott two or three times a
month, and I have two grandsons that I have never met.
The only change in my
life is activity slowing, and mellowing of the temperament. I honestly would
like to stay in touch. So, its really up to YOU!
Your brother
And, finally
---------- Original Message ----------
From: Dale Peterson <dalepeterson48@hotmail.com>
To: Terry Peterson <pete@thepetersonranch.com>
Date: October 30, 2017 at 8:10 PM
Subject: Re: Reply
Being mad at you
takes effort on my part and I don't indulge in that. I simply seek out people
that are positive and are good for my life. I am not going to start any dialog
about this. I simply have moved on and only have time for positive people and
things.
Good luck with your
life.
I will make no further attempt to stay in touch with
Dale!
Ooooh! Ooooh! Theres more!
Incredible! The gift that keeps on giving!
Re: Reply
11/6/2017 7:18 PM
Here is my final response in any matters with you. I am so done. I
have told you about giving you the check for $30,000, which you denied and then
later in your writings, you mentioned "when I received the money from
Dale", a complete contradiction, which is you, in every way. I was willing
to let things go and be civil but I got yanked back into your world when you
met up with Nita Cutler and the story about you having to be secreted out of
Canada. I am tired of your lies as you can't seem to tell the truth, and that
is not a simple thing of "well, that is how I saw it and you saw it
different".
You are a liar and you can't seem to even
understand simple truths, so I leave you to your world. I don't need Lori
calling me and telling me you ripped her off, as I know you and know that
doesn't even surprise me as she wasn't the first. I really am disgusted at you
for having to lie and then justify it. I have documents of where you contradict
yourself and was going to send them, but I don't want to waste the time. Quite
simply, you are not worth it. I have heard enough from others of your
badmouthing me and they know me better so I don't worry about it.
I worked hard to get back on my feet and have peace
in my life and when I get calls about you and your drama and ripping people off
and lying about things, I just have to dismiss it from my life. Too bad you
don't have any moral compass and if you're happy, good for you.
I liked your little "half admission" about
coming after me with a "wiffle bat". Those
are called rolling pins and are easy to kill people with, which I believe was
your intention. I left the house one day and the next day you were screaming at
me and that was shortly before the attack. I don't know what set you off and
now, I simply don't care.
Have
a good life if you can, and leave me completely out of it. In my eyes and
heart, you don't exist. I told Gloria the same thing and now she is
dead. I don't wish you any ill as Karma will be your undoing.
Please
do not contact me any more and go on with your life.
I have peace and any connection to you threatens it, so "no thanks."
Go ahead and let every one know what a
cold hearted SOB I am and do what you choose.
I AM DONE. NO MORE, END OF STORY
..
Ill bet, dear reader, that you thought that was going to be the
end of this!
I knew this day would come. It took a little longer than I
thought, but heres whack a mole popping his head up, once again.
from Dale Peterson
Hi, well I have found myself in a pickle and so I
figured that I would ask for your help. I helped you when I could and
now I need it so I will ask. I figure the worst is you can say no. My car is
dying on me and I have found an excellent deal on a NIssan
Pathfinder that is in great shape and the retail should be from $4500 to $6500
and the guy wants $2000 for it. I have driven it and it is in excellent shape.
I don't have the money to buy it so I need to either borrow the $2000 or get a
co-signer on the loan. I will set up the payment to come automatically out of
my Social Security so there is no risk for you.
I know our
relationship has been strained and I figure that if you want to be brothers, we need to help each
other. The past is just that and I don't live there anymore. I would
appreciate it if you can let me know if you can help me. You know that I
am good at my word and will pay this so that you never have to
spend any money on this at all. Andrea tried to co-sign but her credit is maxed
out. We have been together for five years now and she insists that we have full
coverage on all vehicles so that will apply to this vehicle as well.
All I can do is ask and leave it up to you. I hope
you will help me, please.
Thank you.........Dale
My response;
Terry Peterson<pete@thepetersonranch.com>
6/6/2019 8:39 PM
#1. I dont remember getting any help from
you.
#2. YOU strained our relationship!
#3. Your word means nothing to me. You are the
worst kind of liar there is.
I will help
you. I can co-sign.
.
Now! Watch this get flipped!
----------
Original Message ----------
From: Dale Peterson <dalepeterson48@hotmail.com>
To: Terry Peterson <pete@thepetersonranch.com>
Date: June 7, 2019 at 11:47 PM
Subject: Re: Hello
I want to thank you for offering to co-sign for me. I was able to
swing it and got the vehicle. I read from some of your blogs and looks to me
like you harbor a lot of resentment towards me. I know that I made more than my
share of mistakes in life and didn't handle things as well as I would have
liked. I don't harbor any ill feelings towards you and if you really feel this
way, perhaps we shouldn't communicate. I will leave that up to you. I have apologized for the past
and I have moved on. That is just where I am. Good luck to you and I
hope you are well and happy.
I don't know what more to say. Best to
you..............Dale
I missed the apology somewhere! I harbor NO
resentment. I have simply recorded the communication between us over the years.
I have not made any of these pages available to the public. This is an accurate
record of the nonsense that I have endured.
Heres the apology!!! You thought this was finished?
Todd, sorry we haven't been able to
connect. I really feel like our family has taken a lot of hits over the years
but I feel like forgiveness and a little love and kindness is crucial. I want
you to know that I will never forget the help you gave me on building my house.
I couldn't have done it without you. I totally understand you being drawn to
Colleen's family and am glad you have that experience. I think that you know me
and I feel like I know you and I hope we are good. I really hoped that spending
the time with Scott would be helpful to our relationship and was really sorry
when that went south. Scott really had a hard row to hoe and did a pretty good
job considering all that was thrown at him. I wish I could have been able to
have a relationship with your dad but that wasn't meant to be either. I had no
idea that he had such hatred for me, all my life until I read his blog. I wish
that could be different but I don't think it ever will. I hope you and he have have a good relationship and hope
that he can live his life out in peace.
One thing I really need to
bring up with you is this factor. Quite simply, since your dad attacked me with
the rolling pin, back then, he had in mind to either put me in the hospital or
the morgue. I don't know what triggered it but that is also in the past. When I
paid him the money that I owed him ($30K) back around 96, he wanted to continue
to stay in my house and I told him that he needed to pay me $500 a month, since
I had to take out that much to pay him off per the will. He paid 2 months and
then later on he paid 2 half payments and that was over a period of over a
year. When I hired the lawyer to take care of my real estate, he went ahead
with the lawsuit against your dad and the judgement that followed for nearly $39K
for back rent and damages to my house. I didn't know about that until probably
2002 or later. That was money that really came out of my pocket and since at
the time of the lawsuit, Susan was undergoing open heart surgery and I was not
able to put myself into taking care of all with my house. Since your dad didn't
pay the rent, which he was to pay directly to the loan company, I didn't find
out that I was in arrears until they were ready to foreclose on me. Anyway, I
did get a judgement against him, which I can send along with this and here is
what I need to ask of you.
That house was my
inheritance and I feel that since your dad put me in the position to have to
sell the house or lose it, he owes me the amount of the judgement.What I will ask you is this. I have two
ways to collect that money and feel like it is mine. I can put a lien against
his property, which I figure will cause him a lot of distress and maybe even
damage his health or I can get a promise from you that when he passes, you can
assure me that I will receive that money from his estate. you will probably be
the executor of his will and estate, I do think that you and Scott's kids
should get the bulk of the estate and if you can assure me that you will
reimburse me for the amount just short of $37K, I will not put a lien on his
property. I don't want any bad blood, but that was something I wanted to pass
on to Jessica and because of how I was dealt with, I didn't get the chance. I
hope you will let me know what you think on this and if you want to work it out
so as not to stress out your dad.
I hope you can
see that I am being straight up with you and don't want any problems but this
was something I had to pass on to my kid and I wasn't able to because of what
your dad did to me. I know he has different stories about what he says took
place but I have proof of what I am saying and can provide proof of this to
you, in your dad's own words.
I hope this can be
worked out and I trust you that if you promise me this, you will see it through.
I hope we can be
closer than we have been and I hate to drag you into this but I just thought if
I could not rile your dad, it would be best.
Please let me know
what you think and we can discuss this further if you choose.
Thanks
and know that I love you, Colleen and the kids..........Uncle Dale
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