Xmas!
What does it mean to you?
When
I was a child Christmas was my favorite time of the year. Dad would buy a Christmas
tree right after Thanksgiving and we would spend days decorating it.
Up
until I was about 8 years old I believed in Santa Claus and always made sure to
leave out cookies and milk, which were always consumed, without fail, in hopes
that it would influence the quality of my presents. I sat on his lap the week
before and I told him exactly what I wanted. I remember almost always getting
what I asked for and then some.
Life
was simple in the 1950s. The holidays came and went, and I loved each one, but
Christmas was always my favorite.
Thanksgiving
came, and that meant that Christmas was next month. As a child, a month seemed
like forever, and I was excited the whole time in anticipation. The cities put
up decorations on the streets, and Christmas music came from every speaker.
People were kind to each other, and the general attitude was cheerful.
I
grew up and had children of my own and I tried to recreate the same feeling for
them that I had. We spent enormous amounts of money on gifts and decorations
and feasts.
Christmas
holiday began a week before Thanksgiving, and the hype was unending until New
Year’s Day.
I
really started to notice nonstop traffic, and people weren’t so cheerful
anymore. For the first time I really started to notice the dead trees tossed
out on the streets with bits of tinsel on most and flocking on some.
My
wife made sure that the kids got whatever they wanted but they always had to
fight about something. I now have credit card debt and I am broke until next
Christmas.
It
will be 2023 in a week, and in two weeks I will be 77 years old. I am writing
this on Christmas eve, eve. (12-23-2022)
It
is worse than ever! The hype begins 2 weeks before Halloween, and is so intense
that it is annoying. There is black Friday and cyber Monday, and everything is
on sale.
Christmas
has taken on a whole new meaning for me. I dread to see it coming and I refuse
to venture out unless absolutely necessary. The traffic has become intolerable,
and people are so rude that it is unpleasant to be in public. (not to mention
the pandemic, and the danger of becoming ill)
This
is the first year that I haven’t bought presents. When something is expected,
it is no longer a gift. Rather than buying a gift for someone, I believe a food
treat, or something made by hand, (your hand) carries more meaning than the
most expensive gift.
We
have completely forgotten the meaning of Christmas. For god fearing people,
Christmas represented the birth of Jesus. The three wise men brought gifts from
afar after following a star announcing his arrival.
This
year, I haven’t seen the Nativity scene at all. It’s Santa, and Rudolf, and
Frosty, and Christ, who the holiday is named for, is forgotten
These
days there is little mention of Christ. He has been pushed aside by commercial
activity, and people feel so obligated to satisfy their own image of Christmas
that there is no longer any joy. Only stress. Everyone needs to chop down and
kill a young tree to put in their house without giving any thought to the
millions of trees destroyed to make the tons of paper that we wrap gifts with,
which is immediately discarded on Christmas day.
Am
I the only one that this bothers? Don’t misunderstand! I love the idea of the
holidays but we all need to calm down a little! A family get together is a
wonderful thing. We don’t do that often enough and having a holiday which
encourages reunion is a good thing. Without the stress of exchanging gifts,
personal interaction could be so much more
rewarding.
As
I look back, I can remember, along with the joy of getting a ton of presents,
the feelings of greed and jealousy, and intense disappointment if I didn’t get
what I wanted.
I
could see it in my children, and today, it has gotten worse. The grown up
children are as bad as the youngsters. Most of us are unaware of the appalling
conditions that half of the human population lives with. Children die every day
without ever knowing what it feels like to have a full stomach. So many people
have never seen clean water, and they would kill to have the food that we
waste. Most of the fortunate would rather not hear about these things. Life is
much more pleasant without worrying about the plight of others.
M
C G A
Making
Christmas Great Again
I
have a few ideas to offer.
1. No
chopping down of trees!
2. Gifts
for one another may not be purchased.
3. Handmade
gifts may not be wrapped.
4. Gift
giving must not be mandatory.
5. Find
another way to make children excited about Xmas.
6. Reunions
are good (if possible) and that should get everyone excited.
7. If
you believe in Christ, you should celebrate Him every day. Make Xmas be about
Santa and Rudolf doing something besides gifts!
8. Calm
down with the food. Try preparing ethnic dishes. If you aren’t Native American,
your ancestors were foreigners. Turkey wasn’t a #1 dish. You can, then, enjoy
turkey on the Fourth of July, if you so choose.
9. Lets
exercise some of the words we sling around at Xmastime! MERRY, JOY, LOVE,
PEACE, GENEROSITY, KINDNESS, and most of all, RESPECT!
This is something that will be resisted
until we experience catastrophe, and no one has TOO MUCH, and we will all be
lucky to have ENOUGH! Already, half of the people in America don’t have enough,
and that number is growing faster every day. The number of homeless persons is
at a record high and is growing faster every day. These people are already
doing what I suggest, aside from gifting children. Hopefully, that is being
done responsibly. The pressure that tradition applies can force some to
overextend, adding to an already alarming situation.
Merry Xmas